Never 'TRY' To Learn Dance..!!
Dance changes people’s lives. But for now I have become a
completely different person through dancing. I experienced the ups and downs of dancing and have
developed a way of seeing things in different manner. At some point on this journey I
realised: Life is a dance…
Why you shouldn’t TRY to learn dance??
I know some of you might be confused by this title, but I’m
sure it’ll be clearer soon.
Trying to learn dance is of no use... Don’t try! Do
it, or don’t do it!...You should avoid just trying. If you say “I’ll give it a
try”, your brain has already found an excuse, and that’s why we don’t manage it
in the end. In the end we only tried it. That’s why it’s OK for us, not to have
managed it. That protects our ego. Right from the start!
But if we start by saying: Yeah I’ll do it! I’ll complete
it. This is completely different attitude towards work. It doesn’t really give
you second choice than finishing your project and this gives us the positive energy
to complete the project successfully with 100% effort. If you actively tell
yourself that u will succeed in project or achieve a goal, then your brain
works differently and surely u will complete everything by facing all kinds of
difficulties. If we just try, the chances to fail are much higher.
How does this affect our dancing??
I'll will try to dance. I'll try to spin better. Or I'll
will try to go to dance. All these sentences mean that you have already found
back door to sneak out, before you start your project. We should stay playful
and carefree while we do it! Y don’t we give our best in every little thing we
do..??
Are
you going to try to go dancing more, or are you going to go dancing more? It
might look like a tiny difference, but it will have a big effect on the result.
"Trying" things influence different attitude. To create a better
feeling of dancing well, we must not try to dance but start dancing from scratch.
Sometimes just trying something will not bring up self confidence in us and to completely
indulge ourselves in some work will help us think higher and succeed. Positive thinking strategies help achieve your goals.
Dance is nothing but confidence, positivity, motivation,
application, skills and development. So each time we start something never tell
that 'I will give a try' but tell that 'I can do it'. Don't you feel that you
will dance even more great..??
Make doing your best your ideal goal. Focus on what you’ve
gained from the process and how you can use it in the future. Avoid focusing on what wasn’t done
or should have been done differently.
Allow
yourself to make mistakes and then forgive yourself. Work that doesn’t offer satisfaction
may feel like lack. Positive Energy Manifests Positive Results.